Monday, December 22, 2014

Missionary Trivia Quiz

 

Dear family and friends,

Years ago at a Christmas gathering at our church in Maine, we played a game testing people’s knowledge of the record of Christmas in the Bible against their own understanding of the events. It was an interesting exercise to see how much information we had gathered from the right source. Today we would like to play a trivia game with you to see how well we have communicated our prayer concerns over the past year. You will find the answers at the bottom of the page. (Some questions require multiple answers.)

1. Which of the following countries did we visit this year? A. Liberia  B. Dominican Republic  C. Mexico; D. Guatemala; E. Luxembourg.2014 Guatemala 209

2. Which two countries had we planned to visit but were unable to do so? A. Liberia  B. Dominican Republic  C. Mexico   D. Guatemala  E. Luxembourg

3. What kept us from visiting one of those countries? A. Lack of funds  B. Epidemic  C. Political unrest  D. Changes in scheduling

4. How many countries do we plan to visit in the coming year? 2, 3, 4, or 5? Go ahead, take a guess.

5. Did we spend more or less time away from our home base this year compared to last year?

6. Do we plan to spend more or less time away from home next year?

7. How many car miles do you think we traveled this year? A. Less than 20,000  B. 20,000 – 29,999  C. 30,000 – 39,999   D. More than 40,000

8. Where is our support level? A. 57% B. 59%  C. 61%  C. 62%

9. As 2015 begins, which of these do you think is a big prayer need?  A. Invitations to share our ministry here in the U.S.  B. Travel funds for overseas trips.  C. Arrangements for trips abroad.

10. When will we be in your area again?  A. We usually go to the churches where we are invited.  B. We plan to spend four to six weeks in New England and Canada.  C. We are hoping to get back to South Carolina.  D. We are willing to go wherever the Lord leads.

Check your answers and let us know how well we are doing at communicating with you.

Thank you for your support for us in prayer over the past year. We are so glad to know that we have people standing behind us. May God richly bless you, and may He be the focus of and the reason for all your Christmas celebrations.

Because of Christmas and Calvary,

Charlie and Joan Farley

Answers: 1. C and D 2. A, B and E. 3. The Ebola epidemic in Liberia kept us from going there, and we had hoped to visit Luxembourg on our way either going or coming, so that fell through as well. The Dominican Republic is rescheduled for next year. 4. Four trips are planned – one to D.R., one to Peru, and we are working on a trip to Africa and one to Asia. 5. We were away from home less because we did not travel as much inside the U.S. this year. However, we spent more time abroad than any previous year. 6. We hope to spend more time abroad and more time away from home inside the U.S. 7. B. This is less than any previous year since we started this ministry. 8. The last time we reported, it was at 57%. It now stands at 59%. Thank you for your continued prayer for us about this matter. 9. All of them. 10. All of these answers are right.

Thursday, November 27, 2014

Counting to Ten on Thanksgiving Day

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On this beautiful day of Thanksgiving, I stop to count some of the sweet blessings that God has given through the years.  These are broad, sweeping statements.  Perhaps later I will add some more specific ones, but these are huge blessings in my life that I never want to forget.

  1. God saved me.  On a hot, sunny day in Indonesia as a five-year-old child, God showed me the enormity of my sin and my need of a Savior.  My mother led me in a simple prayer and my life forever changed.  Today my heart overflows with the joy of knowing I am loved and safe with God.
  2. Sixteen years ago God gave me a wonderful, godly husband.  I had to wait a long time to find him.  I let other opportunities for marriage go by as I waited for this man that I hoped existed and who was the other half of me.  Today I give thanks for his godly leadership, his thoughtful intelligence, and his Christ-like love for me.
  3. God gave me godly parents.  Throughout my life, I have witnessed firsthand their faith and commitment to God.  They have been faithful witnesses to me of what it means to trust and follow God.  Today I give thanks that at 89 years of age, they are still part of my life.   
  4. The Bible.  What a precious book.  Everyday when I open its pages, I marvel again how it speaks to me afresh.  Today I found plenty of passages that gave me words of thanksgiving to fill my heart with praise.
  5. Church.  Whether I am talking about our church in Georgia, the church my husband pastored in Maine, or the many other churches where I worshiped and worked through the years, I am so grateful for the role of the church in my life.  The teaching I have received there and the fellowship of the believers have been a help in hard times and a way to celebrate the good times.  Church has helped me grow and made me of more service to God than I ever would have been alone.
  6. Health.  I know of so many people my age who are struggling with physical issues.  How thankful I am for good health. As I get older, I am getting glimpses of the fact that my body may not always be healthy, so I am doubly thankful for health today.
  7. Beauty.  We live in a beautiful world.  I sometimes wonder how heaven could possibly be any better than this, but I am convinced that it is.
  8. The gift of sight.  Every time I stop of admire the color of a fresh flower, the sparkling of dew on the grass, the arch of a double rainbow in the sky, or the glow of autumn leaves in the morning sunlight, I marvel that God would give me eyes to see such beauty.  Along with that gift, I am also giving thanks today for eyeglasses.  I see more clearly with them and appreciate God’s beauty more with them.
  9. Music.  Right now the sound of a professional choir singing “We Gather Together” is filtering up the stairs and into the room where I write.  My heart soars in praise when I hear beautiful music, whether it is the sound of a pipe organ that leads a congregation in song, a cello playing “It Is Well” or a child’s voice singing “Jesus loves me.”  Today music helps me lift my heart in praise in a way that a world without music could not.
  10. The gift of hearing.  As I get older, my hearing is not nearly as good as it used to be.  I notice it when a mosquito has to get close to me for me to hear it rather than hearing it across the room the way I did when I was younger.  Still, I am amazed that God would let me hear the beautiful and no-so-beautiful sounds around me.  Our hearing helps protect us from danger as well as letting us enjoy so much – the singing of birds, the patter of rain, and the thundering of the waterfall.

    Thanksgiving Day sounds are all around me.  I hear a knife on wood as someone cuts vegetables in the kitchen.  A full choir sings through computer speakers.  Footsteps sound in the hallway.  Muted conversations drift through the open door.  Dishes clatter.  The oven door squeaks open and then closed.  A door shuts.  The clock ticks.  A cell phone announces an incoming message.  Cars whisper by on the road outside.  All in all, they remind me that a family has gathered to feast and thank the Lord for His blessings.

    Thank you, Lord, for hearing.

And so I have counted to ten.  To be honest, this is only a start.  My blessings, should I count them all, would number in the thousands.

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Too Wise to Be Mistaken and Too Good to Be Unkind

Years ago a dear friend gave me a copy of Gadsby's Hymns.  Since it was #7 in this book, it did not take me long to find this hymn by Samuel Medley.  Medley was led to saving faith in Jesus Christ when his grandfather read him a sermon by Isaac Watts.  After that, his life was radically changed and he became a prolific songwriter, writing over 200 hymns.  Unfortunately, most of them are no longer being sung in our churches even though many contain doctrine we would want to sing.  More modern songs and hymns have replaced them.

Although I do not know the tune it was sung to then, I find myself singing it to "Jesus, the Very Thought of Thee."

    1   God shall alone the refuge be,
            And comfort of my mind;
        Too wise to be mistaken, He,
            Too good to be unkind.

    2    In all his holy, sovereign will,
            He is, I daily find,
        Too wise to be mistaken, still
            Too good to be unkind.

    3    When I the tempter’s rage endure,
            ’Tis God supports my mind;
        Too wise to be mistaken, sure,
            Too good to be unkind.

    4    When sore afflictions on me lie,
            He is (though I am blind)
        Too wise to be mistaken, yea,
            Too good to be unkind.

    5    What though I can’t his goings see,
            Nor all his footsteps find?
        Too wise to be mistaken, He,
            Too good to be unkind.

    6    Hereafter he will make me know,
            And I shall surely find,
        He was too wise to err, and O,
            Too good to be unkind.



Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Marriage Advice from Dad

Recently while I was sorting through the papers left behind by Charlie's parents, I found the transcript of the words of advice that Fred gave us during our wedding ceremony.  That day we asked both my parents and Charlie's dad to give us their words of advice for a good marriage.  We wanted to learn from those who had proven that a happy, successful marriage could be ours as well.  These words  were good words of advice which we welcomed as we began our life together.  We appreciated hearing them that day, and I enjoyed re-reading them today.  Maybe they will be a blessing to someone else, so I offer them here.
May I first congratulate Charles and Joan on their wedding day.  May your lives together be long and happy ones.
I would like to take this opportunity to express a few thoughts on what constitutes a happy and successful marriage.  I am not a psychologist, psychiatrist, or marriage counselor.  I am just a retired school teacher with almost 51 years of a productive and happy married life behind him.  These thoughts are meant to be a guideline only.  They worked for my wife Ellen and me, and we have lived by them.

First, make sure your spouse is your best friend.  Be there for your partner.  There will be times when you come home after a grueling day, when it seems that the world is against you, when the harder you try, the behinder you get and you feel a need to unburder yourself.  That is the time your spouse needs to sit and listen, not give advice or offer suggestions to what you could have done nor cast blame on anyone, but just sit and listen.  Perhaps and encouraging, kind word now and then would be in order.  The key, Charlie and Joan, is to let your spouse know you are there for them.

Second and most important, never go to sleep angry at each other.  Anger never solves problems.  It feeds upon itself.  I remember our pastor asked an elderly couple with 63 years of happy married life behind them what they attributed their successful marriage to.  Their answer in unison was this:  "We have never gone to sleep angry at each other."  I know from experience that at bedtime, when all is in darkness, if one hand will reach out it will find the spouses hand ccoming to meet it.  The past intense discussion, yes even an argument, will be cast aside with love for one another and the Lord's help.  All problems can be solved.

Third, verbal angry words hurt and cannot be withdrawn.  We hear a lot about physical abuse these days, but I believe verbal abuse is more hurtful and long lasting.  Verbal abuse, and angry words, those words that are spoken without thought, can wound deeply.  The idea that an apology makes it all right again is nonsense.  Once spoken, the words are there.  Find a method that works for both of you when anger arises.  Perhaps an embrace, a cooling-off period, or a prayer.  Above all, when angry emotions take over, find a way to control them.

There are many experiences that the two of you will have.  There are many decisions to make.  My prayer is that the two of you soon learn to be one.  Think of the other first.  Don't fail to show love and affection for each other.  I know there are those who wondered why my wife and I, both in our 70's, still held hands, hugged a great deal and never said goodbye without a kiss.  But we know why.  We loved each other for 51 years.

So Charlie and Joan, enjoy your lives together.  Be the other's best friend, and always be there for each other.  God bless you.
 I did not remember his exact words, so it was good to reread them.  I did, however, remember the gist of what he said.  He was a real blessing to us, and I am so thankful to have known him.


Friday, September 19, 2014

Guatemalan Strawberries and Cream Cake

Since food is such a large part of the experience of traveling abroad, I have decided to include some of our experiments of duplicating food we encounter on our trips.  There are two things we have tried since our return to the U.S.  This is one of them.

There were, I believe, two main differences between our cakes and the cakes we experienced in Guatemala were the frosting and the moistness.  The Guatemalans frost their cakes with whipped cream instead of powdered sugar frosting, and they add a sweet milk or a syrup after baking to moisten the cake even further.

First I followed the directions on a butter-flavor cake mix. I like the look of three-layer cakes, so I used 8-inch pans and divided the batter into the three pans.

While the cake was baking, I washed the strawberries and chose the prettiest one for decorating the top of the cake.  Then I cut up strawberries about two cups of strawberries for the filling.

I also made a simple syrup for moistening the cake.
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 cup water
1/4 teaspoon vanilla
1 tablespoon butter (for added butter flavor)
Heat on medium heat until sugar completely melts.  Remove from heat and allow to cool.

I also made the whipped cream frosting:
2 cups of heavy cream
1 teaspoon of vanilla
1/2 cup powdered sugar
Beat together until stiff peaks form.

By the time the cake had cooled, the syrup had also cooled. I used a pastry brush to spread the syrup on, but it was not necessary.  I could have easily dribbled the syrup directly on to the cake.  The pastry brush method took too long.  If the syrup rolls off instead of soaking in, poke through the outer crust with a fork so that the syrup enters the cake.

 Frost the first layer with whipped cream.  Add strawberries.  Since the layer will be cover, there is no particular order to the placement of these strawberries.  Cover with more whipped cream.  Continue to stack the cake with the next layer of whipped cream, strawberries and more cream.

Since this was my first attempt at this cake, I decided to keep it simple and not try to decorate the cake with more than just the strawberries.  However, a cake decorating kit could add a lot of beauty to this simple cake.

After trying this cake this time, there are a few things I would change.  (1) I would increase the amount of whipped cream and strawberries between the layers.  By the time it sat overnight, much of the whipped cream had soaked into the cake.  (2) I might even increase the amount of syrup, though for the American palate, I think it was moist enough. (3) While the three layers looks nice, the next time I think I will bake it in two 9-inch pans and split the layers in two.  This will aid in the syrup soaking into the cake and will give more layers of strawberries and cream.  (4)  Finally, I think I will make it with chocolate cake next time.  Chocolate with strawberries and cream sounds delicious.

Warning:  If you need to transport this cake to another location, you may need toothpicks to secure it.  The whipped cream is so slippery that when we tried to take it to my parents' home, the top layers completely slid off the bottom layer.

Now for you to see my competition.  It will be a long time before my cakes look anything like these, but that gives me something for which to strive.







Tuesday, September 9, 2014

“America is Disneyland”

 

One sunny summer afternoon, the kind that Minnesota is famous for, I was in my office at church, surrounded by papers and books on my desk.  A friend stopped by and said to me, “Do you want to go on a walk with us?  It’s such a nice day and summer is too short.  A walk around the lake will do us some good.”

A few minutes later, we jumped into their small car and headed to Lake Harriet, about seven miles away.  When we got there, we parked the car and began our walk around the small lake.  Even the trees, shimmering in the light breeze, seemed to be reveling in the perfect day.  The sun glinted off the ripples in the water, and sailboats, tilting toward the wind, skimmed across the clear blue water. When we circumnavigated the lake, we got back into the car and drove back.

Jon parked the car and as we walked back into the church, he said, “America is Disneyland.” 

I laughed and agreed, but just to make sure I was agreeing with the same things that he was talking about, I asked, “What do you mean?”

“Well,” he began.  “We just decided to go to the lake, seven miles away.  We got in our car, drove there, walked around the lake and returned, all within two hours.  We didn’t have a flat tire on the way.  There were no downed trees or washed away bridges preventing us from proceeding.  We didn’t have car trouble.  There were no roadblocks along the way, and no one tried to break into the car or rob us while we walked around the lake.  On the other hand, when we were missionaries, at least one of those things was likely to happen on any given trip.   A trip like the one we just took would have required much more planning.  We would have started packing the car the night before with water and emergency supplies, and we might never have reached our destination.  America is like Disneyland, and Americans don’t even realize how blessed we are.”

I smiled and agreed again, remembering many of my experiences abroad.  Roadblocks, car trouble, impassable roads, and plenty of flat tires were all part of our travel. 

Coming back from Guatemala, I again thought of that conversation.  The luxuries and efficiency we enjoy here are remarkable.  Even though my years in the U.S. now exceed my years abroad, there are still so many things that amaze me.

  • We have hot running water.  Guatemala had hot water in the shower, but none in the kitchen.  In many of the places where we go, the only hot water is the water you heat on the stove. 
  • I can drink water straight from the tap.  Often, when we first return, I find myself thinking twice about pouring a glass of water from the tap.  What a blessing!
  • Mail is reliable and we do not have to pay a surcharge for having the mail delivered to our house.
  • We can pay bills online or by mail instead of standing for hours in line to pay each 2014 Guatemala 088bill.
  • Roads are wide enough that you do not have to back up to a wide spot in order for an oncoming car to pass you.
  • We can travel safely on highways at 65 or 75 miles per hour.   In Guatemala, it took us two hours to travel to the capital city, a distance of only 25 miles.
  • We do not have to pass through checkpoints between states.
  • Grocery stores do not run out of staples and stock similar things almost all the time.
  • We get fresh produce in the grocery store all winter long.  We are not limited to the crops that are locally in season. 
  • Internet is easily available.
  • Septic systems allow you to flush your toilet paper.
  • Policemen are your helpers and protectors.  If I am stopped and I am quite sure I have done nothing wrong, I do not fear them.  On the other hand, I  have been in countries where a stop by a policeman meant he was looking for a bribe.  Failure to pay that bribe could result in a short stay in a jail cell.  Thankfully, God kept me from having to pay that price for ignoring the obvious pleas for a bribe.

There are many others, but these are the ones I often find myself thanking God for when we return from a trip abroad.  So the next time you go to the sink and pour yourself a glass of water to drink, thank God for the placing you in a land where we live with fewer risks and many more luxuries than the rest of the world enjoys.

We are blessed far beyond what we ever would have deserved.  Thank you, Lord!

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Guatemala, I miss you.

 
I miss the everyday sights
  • Early in the morning, the mountains slowly appeared through the mist and stood like powerful sentries around the village, announcing to anyone who paid attention that our Creator God was bestowing bountiful blessings on this little country of Guatemala.
  • Flowers cascaded down front gates, lined window boxes and pathways to homes, and sold for pennies in the marketplace..
  • The market in San Juan Sacatepéquez was teeming with the vibrant color or produce for sale and lively bargaining between vendors and buyers at 7:00 in the morning.
  • Children played outside.  A soccer game, marbles, or simple tag might take place in the village streets or in the alleys.  
  • Vendors and housewives carried their wares on their heads.
  • Dogs roamed freely and without the territorial viciousness I often see back home.
I miss many of the things I smelled there.
  • Freshly washed clothes hung on the line, wafting their scent of lavender in my direction when I walked by.DSCN0446
  • A jasmine bush grew by the driveway, and Barbara picked a few flowers for our desk just before we arrived.  For days, I smelled their fragrant aroma whenever I walked into our room.
  • Walking up the driveway, I’d stop to smell the jasmine and the roses that grew there.
  • Before a rain, you could smell it coming.  After it left, the natural smells of earth and grass were more prominent than before.
  • Tortillas or tacos for sale at a roadside stand tempted us as we walked by.
  • The fragrant aromas filtered out of the kitchen several times as day, awaking our senses and making us ready to enjoy the next meal.
  • Of course, there were some not-so-nice smells that I sometimes smelled, but even those were a reminder to me that I was not at home.  Bus fumes, garbage, and manure could not overcome the positives things I smelled there.
I miss the sounds I heard there.
  • Firecrackers at midnight announced the beginning of someone’s birthday.
  • Dogs barked, and roosters crowed their way-too-early greeting of the new day.
  • Buses blared their horns, as early as 4:30 in the morning, to announce their departure for the capital city.
  • A lonely cat let everyone know of her presence as she sat outside mewing for attention. 
  • Children played on the patio, their laughter and imaginative conversations drifting in to where I quietly worked on my lesson plans for the day.
  • The gentle rain pinged off the metal roof, quieting the other noises outside and lulling me to sleep.
  • Children called out “Gringos!” to each other whenever we were out on the street.
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Barbara teaching the children.
But mostly, I miss the people.
  • Giovanni and Barbara Avendaño and their wonderful family. Our house seemed way too quiet when we returned. 
  • The indigenous women in their colorful dress celebrated their distinctive culture.  Their shyness made it obvious to me that they had different cultural values from the ladinos in their midst. 
  • The church people sang enthusiastically when they gathered for worship.
  • Hosts and hostesses warmly welcomed us into their homes for a typical Guatemalan meal.
  • At prayer meeting, their prayers were fervent as they lifted their voices to God, asking Him to do impossible things in their lives and in the lives of those they loved.  
  • Passersby greeted us pleasantly as we walked down the village streets, sometimes stopping to talk or walk with us for a while. 
  • Children called out their few English words when we passed and giggled when we stopped to talk to them.
  • The people of Guatemala were friendly and welcoming to us.  Wherever we went, they greeted us with a smile.
So, Guatemala, we do not know exactly when we will be back, but we are looking forward to our return.



Friday, August 15, 2014

Guatemalan Snapshots

For those who prefer photos to words.

These are just a few photos to give you a glimpse of Guatemala.

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Flower vendors in San Juan Sacatepequez
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One of the things I love about Guatemala is all the children.  Here are two indigenous children, one dressed traditionally and one in western dress.
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The narrow streets of Cerro Alto.
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Overlooking Antigua, Guatemala
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Children play outside.  In Cerro Alto it was common to see a soccer game going on in the street.  When a car would come, they would run to the side and resume when the car passed.
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Bakeries are common, and they may well make the best cakes in the world!
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Two teenagers head home from school while a street vendor sells her bananas.
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A classroom in Guatemala.  There is another row of chairs that you cannot see in this photo.  Most of the classrooms had at least 30 children in them.  One had 46.

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Soccer is the favorite sport.  They were quite excited to learn that people from the U.S. are finally interested in watching the World Cup.  
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Saying Goodbye to beautiful Guatemala.

Thursday, August 14, 2014

August News

Dear friends and family,

What a wonderful month we had in Guatemala.  

Giovanni Avendaño, IPM’s missionary church planter in Guatemala, asked us to come for a month because he knew that the module format that we often use would not work well with his people.  Instead, we would teach a series over the course of a month.  Charlie taught on Biblical counseling for two hours on Tuesday nights in their Bible institute.  Joan taught on teaching for two hours on Wednesday nights following prayer meeting.  We also taught in the monthly men’s and women’s meetings.  On weekends, Charlie preached, we both taught Sunday school, and we were both involved in the teen meetings.  It was a busy, yet rewarding schedule.

But the main question we want to answer upon our return is not “What did the Farleys do?” but “What did God do?”  While there may be things we will never know about, here are some of the things we do know.
  • One child asked the Lord to save him.  He talked to his parents during the week, and the on Sunday asked the pastor if he could be saved.
  • Four people were baptized.  Three were adults, and one was a teenager.  It was a day of joyous celebration.  As Giovanni said, “I want to make a big deal about the important things in people’s lives.”  So we spent the afternoon together as a church family.  After the baptism in a swimming pool, the children went swimming and adults played soccer.  The rest sat around and shared stories.  Then one family, whose child’s birthday was that day, passed out bags of candy to everyone and hung up piñatas, one for the girls to break and one for the boys.  Then we all sang “Happy Birthday” and had cake.
  • Another church has been started since our last time in Guatemala.  According to Giovanni, it is taking a lot more work to get this one up and running than the other two he started.  Yet he is confident that the Lord led them to do this, and that the Lord will build his church in San Raymundo.
  • God granted safety and health throughout our trip.  While Joan battled a couple minor things while we were there, she was able to teach whenever it was her turn.
  • God opened the door for us to teach in the public school.  The principal, one of the new people in the church, asked if we would go teach English and the gospel.  Charlie used English sentences to talk of the gospel with the older grades, and Joan used colors and then taught the wordless book to the younger grades.  The following Sunday ten children from the school showed up in church.
  • God used us in our teaching.  Over and over people thanked us for what they had learned and talked of how they were already applying it in their everyday lives. 
  • We saw obvious change in one young woman’s life after a brief time of counseling with her.
  • God is building a strong church in the small town of Cerro Alto.  Three new couples recently started attending, and Giovanni is taking them through discipleship classes. 

Thank you so much for your prayers for us while we were gone. 

Your co-laborers in the Gospel,

Charlie and Joan Farley

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Getting Acquainted with Guatemala


A month is only long enough to start to become acquainted with a place, so we have only just begun.  Experts say the tourist or honeymoon phase comes first when the wonder of the new place has not yet worn off.  In the month we have been here, we are definitely still enjoying the wonder of it all.  
For the past month we have lived in the small town of Cerro Alto.  It is a rural village with a population of about half indigenous people and half Ladinos, located about 12 miles almost due north of Guatemala City.  By road, it is about 24 miles away.
These are some interesting things we have learned.

Shopping:

  • Flowers are incredibly inexpensive, at least by US standards.  Twice Charlie bought me flowers. The first time it was a mixed bouquet of roses and other flowers.  Since it was an anniversary gift, I don’t know what he paid.  The second time he bought a mix of daisies, carnations and coneflowers.  He told me the bouquet cost about fifty U.S. cents.  
  • Bargaining is a way of life here, and a skill I have yet to master.  Every vendor in the market has the “best price for you,” usually close to a third or even twice what you should actually pay for it.  Bargaining is a fine art that we haven’t learned well yet.
  • About every fourth house on the main street will have something for sale:  tortillas, vegetables, fruit, snacks, and tiny packages of household staples.  So if the household runs out of something, a child is dispatched to buy it at a neighbor’s store.

Food:

  • In our town, milk comes powdered in a foil bag or in a can.  You can also buy UHT milk in a carton.  (When I lived in Guatemala city many years ago, we bought fresh milk in plastic pouches.)  DSCN0668
  • Guatemalans may make the best cakes in the world.  Instead of using frosting, they usually frost with whipped cream and add fruit for both decoration and flavor.  Their cakes are moist and full of flavor.
  • Small, fresh corn tortillas can be purchased at the local tortilla vendor for about three cents a piece.  It is no wonder that tortillas are a staple here.
  • Corn is the staple food.  People plant it in every available piece of ground.  It cascades down the mountain sides.  It decorates front yards.  It can even be found clinging to the foot-wide edge of the road. 

Travel:

  • It takes a long time to get anywhere.  Although the town where we were was only about 25 miles away from the capital city, it took two hours by public transportation to make the journey, and a private car was only a little faster.
  • The roads are narrow and full of twists and turns.  Even if they are paved, you do not dare go fast because of what might be sitting in the middle of the road around the next bend: dogs, a bus, or people casually walking down the road.
  • Fairly smooth, dusty roads turn to into a bone-jarring washboard after a good DSCN0597rainstorm.
  • Roads are quite narrow.  We watched two buses try to pass each other.  Each one sent the conductor out to make sure nothing on the far side was getting to close while the drivers kept an eye on their side.  They passed with inches to spare.
  • If you own a car, the mileage will stay low, but the bumpy roads take their own toll on the cars.
  • In Cerro Alto, 95% of the pickup trucks and 99% of the minivans are Toyotas.  The buses are almost entirely retired Bluebirds.

Weather:

  • Guatemala is called the “Land of Eternal Spring” because of its year-round spring-like weather.  Most of the country is in the mountains.  Days warm up to the upper seventies or low eighties, and nights are usually in the sixties.
  • The rain is usually gentle, though it does come down hard for brief periods of time, and tin roofs make it sound like you are inside a tunnel inside a waterfall.
  • The pleasant weather means that flowers bloom year round.  Many houses decorate their front walls with numerous flowers.  After a rain, they seem to abound even more.

People:

  • Perhaps it is the people that make Guatemala so attractive.  They are friendly and DSCN0502ready to accept a foreigner into their circle of friendship.  They greet one another on the street and smile readily. 
  • The indigenous people still dress distinctively and have held on to many of their traditions.  The women dress in colorful, attractive outfits which still give cues to their family heritage.  They are glad to be indigenous and happy to let others know of their heritage.
  • The people are the reason we went to Guatemala – to teach and deepen their understanding of God’s word.  It was a privilege and a blessing for us to be there.

Other interesting facts:

  • It costs about 25 cents to use a public restroom.  The cost is reasonable when you realize that it means that toilet paper is provided as well as cleanliness.
  • Birthdays for children usually include a piñata, which is lots of fun for children who are quick to run and grab the candy.  The rest, however, may feel left out.  We saw more children in tears at a birthday party than we saw at any other time.
So much of Guatemala still remains a mystery.  We have spent most of our month just in this small town, and even though it is small in size, it holds more than 7,000 people, most of whom we have not met.  We would need to spend years here to feel that we really had an idea of what Guatemala is really like.

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Worth the Trip

 

“We need to leave the house at 6:30 tomorrow morning,” Barbara told me smiling.  “The Bible study starts at 9:00, and the bus we need to catch leaves at 6:45.”

As I drifted off to sleep that night, I slept lightly, hearing most of the sounds that had kept me awake the first night but that I now ignored.  Dogs barked.  Roosters crowed.  Bus and truck horns blared.

The next morning, just before the alarm went off, I awoke.  Even though the morning’s first light was filtering through the window, I lit a candle to help me find my way around the room.  I quickly dressed and sat down on the bed to read and pray a little.  At about 6:25 I left our room and headed into the dining room to wait for Barbara who emerged just a few minutes later.

By 6:40 we were at the bus stop, but the bus was not there.  Instead, a 15-passenger van was there waiting.  Barbara approached the van driver and asked about the bus.

“Oh, it already left,” he told her.

She smiled and said to me, “Bus times are not always reliable here.  I asked yesterday, and I was told it would leave at 6:45.”

So instead of taking the bus, we jumped in the van.  Before long, other passengers arrived, and the van driver thought he had enough people to begin the trip.  He drove at a walking pace through town, beeping his horn at every location where he thought people might be interested in boarding.  When we reached the paved road and the houses were fewer, he sped up to a normal speed.

We drove through several small towns until we reached San Juan Sacatepéquez, where we jumped off to catch the bus to the city.  We walked about a block until we saw the bus for the city.  At the back of the bus, two seats beckoned.  We had hoped for a place with two empty DSCN0459seats together, but there were none.  We were thankful, though, for seats.  We sat down, one in front of the other. The radio blasted from the back of the bus, so I put my fingers in my ears.  It was so loud it hurt.  Even with my fingers in my ears, I could clearly hear the words.  I intentionally thought about other things since I did not want some of those words running through my head all day.

The bus passed by the market, already in full swing.  Then it wound its way through the mountains, passing makeshift greenhouses, vegetable gardens, and furniture builders.  We went through San Pedro where many people disembarked for their day’s work and others who worked in the capital city boarded.  With the shift in passengers, Barbara and I were able to find seats together, though the loud music made it hard to carry on a conversation.

Eventually we arrived in the capital city.  Traffic sometimes came to a complete stop.  Motorcycles wove in and out among the cars, and pedestrians sometimes took their lives into their own hands trying to cross.  Vendors got on and off the bus selling their wares.  “Three for five quetzales,” one called as he held up small packages of cookies.  I quickly did the calculation.  That was three packages for about 65 cents.  Snack food is certainly inexpensive here.

Barbara turned to me.  “Our stop is coming up,” she warned, DSCN0647so we got out of our seats and headed to the front of the bus.  We got off and climbed the stairs to the overpass to cross the highway.  On the other side, Beth, a missionary here in Guatemala, waited for us in her car.  When we arrived, she was busy studying her lesson.

After a short drive, we arrived at the home of the hostess.  Even though it was only 8:35, there were already quite a few women there.  When another few arrived, Beth instructed the group to load up their plates and have some breakfast.  With my stomach rumbling, I was glad the food did not come after the study.  I checked my watch.  It was only 8:45, yet here we were starting.  I guess things start here when enough people have arrived.

We loaded our Styrofoam plates with breakfast sandwiches, papaya, melon and grapes, filled our cups with black sweet coffee, and sat down.  Soon everyone was enjoying the food and the camaraderie around the table.  These godly women shared their stories of things going on in their homes and churches.  More than once laughter rang out.  Other women arrived and joined the group.  By this time there were twenty women around the table, most of whom were wives of pastors in the area.

By the time breakfast was over, everyone was ready to dive into Bible study.  Out of large purses came Bibles, pens and Bible study notebooks.  For the next hour, we listened to Beth teach and many chimed in with personal insights.  It was a group I knew I would love if I lived here.

As soon as we were done, we headed home again. 

We walked to the bus stop and stood watching the buses as they whizzed by.  When one marked “San Juan Sacatepéquez” approached, Barbara lifted her arm to indicate that we needed a ride.  It stopped.  We quickly climbed on and it took off again as we held on to the luggage rack to make our way to a couple empty seats in the back.  Once again, the music blared.  I did not think it was possible for the music to be louder than it had been on the bus in the morning, but it was.  I turned to Barbara and said, “I need to move forward away from this noise.”  Once again, that meant we could not sit together, but it was worth it to not have my eardrums hurting quite as much.

When we arrived in San Juan Sac, as it is affectionately called, we got off and walked to the bus stop for Cerro Alto.  There were quite a few people already waiting. 

“You need to be ready to move quickly when the van comes,” Barbara told me.  “There will be a rush for the door.”

Sure enough, when the van came, the entire group surged for the open side door.  But Barbara was smart.  She asked the conductor to open the back gate, and we climbed in the back and settled in the back row.  By the time we headed out, twenty people were crammed into the 15-passenger van.  Another four stood on the edge at the open door, hanging on to the roof, and the conductor was hanging on to the ladder on the side.  DSCN0572

As the van was leaving San Juan Sac, a whistle blew.  A policeman on the side of the road signaled to the van.  The van pulled over, and the four men who had been hanging out the door jumped off, ran to the side where they climbed the ladder to sit atop the van on the luggage rack.  The conductor moved inside to start collecting our fares.  I smiled.  Evidently, it is against the law to hang out the open door, but it’s not against the law to sit atop the van on the luggage rack, and it certainly does not matter how many people can be stuffed inside.  Before long we were home again. 

When we started out that morning, I wondered if I would be willing to make the four-hour round trip every month for a Bible study.  But after having been there, I realized why it was that important to Barbara.  It was a refreshing time with other women in ministry.  It was certainly worth the trip.

Friday, August 1, 2014

A Walk through the Village

This afternoon Charlie and I took a walk through the village.  Along the way we greeted the people we met and stopped and talked with a few.  When they asked why we were here, we told them we were teaching at the local Baptist church, gave them a tract and invited them to attend one of the services.  Join us on our walk through the village.

As we leave the house, at the top of the driveway we can see the mountains across the valley from this village.

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Flowers abound.

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We pass the catholic church.  Every town in Latin America seems to have one, usually in the center of town.  A strong majority of people here will claim Catholicism as their religion.

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Children peer out open doorways to watch the “gringos” pass by.  Others call out to us.  Some even try to use the one or two words they know in English.  “Buenas tardes,” I call to a couple girls who respond in kind, and then go running away, giggling.

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Anyone need a Laundromat?

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Wheelbarrows are put to good use here.  Doesn’t this look like fun?

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Eventually we arrive at the church, about a half mile from where we are staying.  No one is here today, but tonight it will be bustling with activity.


On our way back, we walk through the main intersection in town.  In reality, it is the only intersection, though many small roads, wide enough for only one car at a time, are like fingers off the main roads.

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We pass dozens of little stores like this one.  This one is larger than most.  Besides the actual stores, many houses have baskets of produce in front of their homes ready to sell to passers by.

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The white picket fence, the only one in town, lets us know that we are back at our hosts’ home.

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Thank you for taking this walk with us.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Guatemalan Blessings

Midway through our time here in Guatemala, I want to lift up my voice in praise to God who allowed us to be here and who has granted so many blessings along the way.  Rather than give an account of the things we have been doing, I thought I would just list some of the blessings that have come our way.
  • Celebrating sixteen years of marriage here.  Charlie found an “I Love You” card in Spanish.  I had brought one from the U.S.  Our hostess went to the trouble to prepare special meals for us, and we had a full day of ministry.  Then our host family took us out to dinner that night.  The following day the church sang a “Happy Anniversary” song to us.
  • Flowers.  Instead of paying DSCN0568 the proverbial “arm and a leg” for flowers, flowers are inexpensive here, so Charlie bought me some to celebrate.  I’m hoping to get some more while we are here.  Fresh flowers often adorn the front of the church as well.
  • Village sounds.  Even now I can hear roosters crowing, dogs barking, the wind blowing through the trees, and birds singing.  The modern sounds of buses, horns, air compressors, and generators are here too.
  • Mountains.  Mountains surround us here, and they are a constant reminder to me of God’s care.  “I will lift up mine eyes unto this hills.  From whence cometh my help?  My help comes from the Lord who made heaven and earth.”  Psalm 121:1-2
  • Salvation.  How often I give thanks to God for His saving power in my own life and in the life of the believers around me.  Yesterday that power to save was demonstrated once again when a 9-year-old boy asked Jesus to save him from his sins and surrendered to His control.DSCN0555
  • A vibrant church.  This church where we are teaching is only seven years old.  It is filled with the enthusiasm of new believers and families growing together in the faith.  Seven years ago, most of them did not know Jesus, except as a name.  Today they are His followers.  The church has become a magnet for young families looking for answers because so many of the families have a very positive testimony of family harmony and closeness.
  • A vital ministry.  The missionary pastor and his family are busy.  Everyday except Thursdays they have something scheduled. In the ten (or so) years they have been here, they have seen one church firmly planted and two others get started.
  • Being able to serve this ministry.  During our time here Charlie has done a fair amount of teaching and preaching, and I have been teaching teachers, women, and children.  Our days are full, and we feel blessed to be able to share the things God has taught us. 
  • A close look at a close-knit family.  It has been a privilege to live with the Avendaño family while we are here.  They have been gracious to us in every way.  When you live with someone for an entire month, you get to really know them, and we have been very pleased to see the closeness they have. 
I could add more, but I’ll stop here.  We are blessed!

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Our First Week in Guatemala

 

“Will you be ready to teach on the Wednesday night after we arrive?” Charlie asked me about a week before we left.

“Yes,” I replied, as I put finishing touches on the lesson for that night.  Fortunately, I had been asked to do a teacher training seminar in Chicago for a Spanish church there not too long ago, so I had this lesson almost ready.

We arrived on Tuesday night, well after midnight by our morning rising time, but only a little after 10:00 local time.  The next day we sat down with our host to discuss our schedule for the time we would be there.  We found out that it was similar to their normal schedule, only they were adding a few things because we were there.

Wednesday night prayer meeting is taken seriously. Except for a brief devotional from the Bible, the rest of the time is given to prayer.  Several times during our weeks there Giovanni said to me, “We really enjoy praying together.  I know we are a small group, but that is fine because the ones who come really want to pray.”  One Sunday he told the people, “If you know there is sin in your life, I am asking that you not come on Wednesday night to prayer meeting.  Your prayers would be a waste of our time and God’s.”

Kneeling on the hard, tiled floor with heads bowed and arms resting on the seats of plastic stackable chairs, we prayed around the circle.  When it was my turn, I found it difficult to really pray as I groped for the right words in Spanish.  How I longed to pour out my heart to God the way the rest did, but as I stumbled, I was grateful that the Holy Spirit would take the requests of my heart and make them known to God.  As prayer continued around the circle, I reveled in the fervency and emotion of each person praying.  At 8:00, Giovanni dismissed those heading to my class, while the remainder would continue praying until 9:00.  As I walked toward the classroom, I knew that God had heard their prayers and would act on their behalf.  How glad I was to have this group of people praying for me and for our class as I taught. 

We began the class with nine people.  At about 8:30, another five people, whose jobs ended at 8:00 p.m., showed up.  I was encouraged by their commitment.  I taught on “Basic Questions to Ask Before Teaching.”  At the recommendation of the Avendaños, I had made 15 copies of my outline.  (The next week that was not enough, and by the fourth week, 22 people attended the class.) 

The next day was a “free” day, we were told.  Of course, I knew that on Sunday I would be teaching the ladies on “Teaching Young Children,” so I needed to spend my time getting ready.  This was brand new material for me to be teaching in Spanish.  I desperately needed large blocks of time to get ready, so I spent the morning working.

Lunch, the main meal of the day, was ready by 2:30 p.m.  We sat down to a delicious meal of stewed chicken and vegetables, rice, tortillas and limeade, made from freshly squeezed limes grown on the Avendaños’ property. 

After lunch, as it was considered a free day, we took the Toyota station wagon into San Juan 2014 Guatemala 008Sacatepéquez, the nearby city.   Charlie was looking for an anniversary card for me, and he eventually found an “I love you” card that fit the bill.  Barbara needed some supplies for home school and for the children’s ministry.  They also wanted to buy flowers for a church member who had just suffered a miscarriage.  I was intrigued by the market, especially the flower vendors who had stacks of flowers to sell.

We made our purchases and left for Laura’s house.  She was in bed recuperating.  The doctor had told her she would need a week of rest, but it was her emotions, even more than her body, that would need recuperation as she mourned the loss of her child.  The flowers were lovely, but she barely noticed them.  After talking with her and kneeling around her bedside to pray for her, we left and returned home.

As soon as we returned home, Barbara left to take her very sick mother-in-law to the hospital.  Later that evening, Giovanni headed out to disciple a new couple in the church, so we stayed with their three delightful children while they were gone.  When they both returned home, we enjoyed a light supper and then retired to our room where I resumed studying.

2014 Guatemala 022The next day dawned bright and clear.  The only thing on the agenda for that day was the evening service at church.  That allowed me more time to work on my lesson for Sunday.  Both of us worked since Charlie would be preaching that night.

On Saturday, there was a men’s meeting in the morning and a teen meeting in the afternoon.  Charlie spoke at both.

On Sunday, I taught my class on teaching little ones to the ladies, and Charlie taught the men’s class.  Giovanni preached that morning.  In the afternoon at 4:30, Charlie preached at the service in the new church plant. 

On Monday morning I was back to studying because my lesson for Wednesday night would be a new one.  Not only was it material I had not taught since before I was married, but I also needed to do it in Spanish.  I would need lots of hours to prepare.  Charlie headed out with Giovanni and Otilio, one of the men from the church, to buy boots.  He had heard they were inexpensive there, and Otilio wanted to buy him a pair.  He returned with a beautiful pair of brown boots which had cost about $39.  The same boots in the US would have cost about $150.

Tuesday night was Charlie’s night to teach.  Bible institute started at 8:00 and went until 10:00.  By this time, however, Giovanni had become quite ill and there was no one to translate for Charlie.  Although my Spanish is hardly adequate, I was the only one available.  So with the help of a dictionary and lots of patience on Charlie’s part, we muddled through.

When we went to bed that night, I said to Charlie, “It’s hard to believe we’ve only been here a week.  It seems like a lot longer than that.”  It felt like the longest week we’d had in a long time.  Now that we knew the schedule, though, it would be easier.   

I had to admire Giovanni.  Yes, this was a more intense week for him because of illness (both his and his parents), but this is not much different from normal.  Every week, he prepares for all 2014 Guatemala 192his meetings and he disciples three different couples.  He has three churches he is trying to lead, one of which is strong and healthy.  The other two are still in their infancy.  He is also the regional director for IPM, so missionaries in other countries report to him.  He has his aging parents living nearby, and he has a young family to take care of as well.   

Barbara, too, amazed me.  She is an excellent children’s teacher.  Every week she was teaching children’s Sunday School and she traded with another woman to do children’s church during the afternoon service.  There is also children’s club twice a month, and she directs that. She also directs the women’s ministry.  In addition, she is an always-ready hostess.  Several times people showed up at mealtimes.  We added plates, scooted chairs closer, and she served them with a heartfelt welcome. People come to her for prayer and counsel.  And, of course, the work at home takes up much of her time.

It was a huge blessing to be in Guatemala.  We look forward to future visits, and now we have a better idea of what a week will hold.

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Similarities Between Three Nations

 
Mexico, Guatemala and the Dominican Republic. How are these three nations alike? Here are some interesting features that unite them.

First, they are united by a common language. They all speak Spanish. Yet that is like saying that the Australians, Brits, Indians, and North Americans all speak English. Yes, it is the same language, but the accent and many of the idioms and expressions make them quite different.  
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A group of believers in the Dominican Republic
On our first visit to the Dominican Republic, I was lost.  I had been out of Latin America long enough that my Spanish was very rusty.  Added to that difficulty, the Dominicans blend their words together and speak rapidly.  When I was surrounded by the locals, I understood very little.  Mexico, on the other hand, was the easiest for us.  Was that because we've become more accustomed in the last couple years?  Perhaps.  But I think it's also because I hear more Mexican Spanish spoken here in the US than I do the other accents.

Second, they are all in the Western Hemisphere.  This is helpful to us since it does not cost as much for us to travel to these nations as it does to those on the opposite side of the world.  We can make two or three trips for the cost of one trip to Asia.

Third, we hope to visit all three of these countries this year, and in all three of these nations, IPM's missionaries are church planters.
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Morning service in Cuernavaca, Mexico
We were privileged to visit Cuernavaca, Mexico, for the first time this year and see the church plant that Sergio and Alejandra Herrera have planted there.  As you see from the previous post, we were quite impressed by that church.  When they came together, they were excited to be there.  At night, the pastor had to shut the lights out in order to get them to leave.  On Sundays, they spent almost the entire day together.  Eagerness abounds in learning new things about God and in sharing those truths with others.  Although they will miss the Herreras when they return to their homeland of Chile, they are looking forward to the process of becoming completely independent.  
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Teaching the children in Guatemala

In just a few days, we will be heading out to spend a month in a little town called Cerro Alto, about two hours outside of Guatemala City.  There we will be working with Giovanni and Barbara Avendano.  Giovanni is a Guatemalan who came to know Christ while he lived in California.  He has gone back to the town of his birth where he planted a church.  That church is vibrant and strong.  On a typical Sunday morning, there are over one hundred people there.  We know we will be involved in multiple ministries while we are there:  teaching teachers, training leaders, preaching and teaching on Sunday and Wednesday, and anything else the Avendanos need from us. 

Giovanni has a deep desire for his people to know Christ, so one church plant is just not enough.  When we were there, he had begun meetings in another town nearby.  A smaller group of about 30 were meeting there.  Then, sometime during the last two years, He has begun church plants in another nearby location.  His desire, like that of Paul’s, is that all men would come to know the truth.   
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Students taking a quiz in the Bible institute


In October, we hope to head to the Dominican Republic to work with Enrique and Solanlly Mejia.  They have also started a church.  One difference with Enrique Mejia, however, is that he also has a thriving Bible institute where pastors and future pastors gather from all over the island to increase their knowledge and ability to use the Word of God effectively in their ministry.  

Fourth, our ministry will be in Spanish.  I will do all of my teaching in Spanish.  Over the past couple years, I have become much more comfortable doing this, but I still feel very inadequate.  I would greatly appreciate prayers for fluency, especially since I am often teaching new material every time I go.  

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Preaching through a translator
Charlie teaches through a translator.  In Mexico, the translator that was available had never translated before.  His command of English was good, but translating in front of a group of people, some of whom also have an adequate command of English, was intimidating.  In the Dominican Republic and in Guatemala, the missionary men themselves do the translating.  Their command of English is excellent, and they do a great job of translating.

We are looking forward to the next month in Mexico.  There is still much to be done before we leave, but we are eager to go.